Bpd ex blocked me If you were blocked and can get out early take the block. Mysteries unravel and boundaries are set when dealing with a BPD ex - discover key strategies for navigating this complex terrain. While some of their exbpd don’t block them, just act like nothing happened. I noticed she unblocked through tags on my social media. Topic: Ex Blocked Me Again After Positive Contact (Read 833 times) whattodo2. 5 months of him not contacting me Bc he blocked me immediately, little things still happen. I was confused, until I checked FB and realized she had me blocked - that's why my stuff wasn't showing up. She finally broke contact and eventually blocked me after I tried to make amends. She then proceeded to send me 2 audio messages through email. They broke it off with me in November. She would often block me after an argument, but not on every social medias, probably knowing I would reach out. One was 4 minutes long and the Me and my BPD ex broke up 2 months ago due to me being hurt by her. I personally want nothing to do with that, it's a huge red flag and if I'd just dumped my quiet BPD ex as soon he told me about this, I'd have saved myself a lot of heartache. At first it was just insta which confused me but now its facebook too. She kept it blocked for a week then I If your ex has bpd and she wants space shes probably over you Reply reply Yeb my ex also said she block me for 2 weeks so we can reflect on our relationship then ghosted and discarded me. Offline What is your sexual orientation: Straight Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner Posts: 6. This She blocked me on everything. University started about 6 weeks ago and unfortunately she’s with me in 3 classes out of 5 while my other ex (non BPD ex) is with me in one of the other classes. 'Im not mad, I know you dont block out of spite but hope when you feel overwhelmed. Part 2 (Read 1935 times) Adrian26. Is that most get instantly blocked from their exbpd on everything. So I quit talking to her. We broke up almost 4 years ago and I had to get a restraining order after we broke up due to excessive stalking via fake numbers, emails, newly created socials because he is blocked on everything. I have no means of getting to her except perhaps through a third +1 here. I'm thinking to look for some therapy and so on. . It seems to me that blocking is her way of distancing herself so she can detach, And MoveOn from the relationship. My ex/fp blocked me . He blocked me on everything, even when he had blocked me in the past he has never blocked my r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) My ex blocked me . the problem is i really do love him, so when i did this it only made him distance further. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder My ex unfriended me on snapchat, which means if she Topic: Bumping into BPD ex, rebound, coffee date, block. Is it If you're wondering what to do when a borderline personality disorder ends a relationship, the first thing you need to do is to stop blaming the illness for the breakup. Your ex was the one responsible for staying in love with you and for dealing with BPD. My t explained the BPD perfectly, 'its like trying to solve a colour changing rubix cube, no matter how hard you try, you will never solve the problem, Me not really answering any of the ex bf text messages resulted in a manic breakdown of nasty messages so I just blocked her. She started reaching out to me at work, being friendly to me after saying she wanted no contact. My ex with BPD discarded me in the summer for another person. Hell, the two times I was pleasant to an ex in the year and a half I spent with my current ex, she hammered me over, and all I did was respond civilly to the former ex I haven't seen in 8 years who knew I was dating her. My ex blocked me 2 days ago for asking a simple question about a place he used to go to. forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have All I know is, if I was in constant contact with my ex while SHE was around me, she'd have had a meltdown. I don’t have the heart to block her sister Why Has My Narcissist Ex Not Blocked Me? Just because they havent blocked you doesn’t mean they’re thinking about you or want to reconnect with you. She texted me yesterday and I read the preview of the message but did not actually click on it. Having bpd myself, i can jump from thinking someones a People are probably wondering: what is it like for a person with BPD to have their ex go no contact? The short answer: like falling down the deepest and darkest hole in the world. My ex (dumper) just blocked me after three months. I told her I cannot find her on And then the moment I got home I immediately regretted breaking up with him and tried texting him and found that he has me blocked on every single form of communication, social media, She even had her father( has BPD) call me to rescue her, even though she hates him but always craves his attention. For context he pursued me for 6 months last year but never asked me out. I had a quite traumatizing experience with my ex-BPD, and today I am almost healed after 9 months of struggle. However unblocked me in Telegram after i was blocked. that he threw her down the stairs. A year after that profile called me again. I got blocked after I got her classmate as a friend suggestion on fb (she has told about me to him and vice versa) and sent him a message that included "She has told me you are worried about her too" The friend shared a screenshot of Hi guys and girls, I am having a very very hard and depressing time with all of this and am looking for guidance, a long story short my ex discarded me for a man 10 years younger than her and our breakup was messy in the end, my business failed I became depressed and she in essence left me, cutting the story short I keep getting blocked and unblocked from social She has completely blocked me. she told a mutual friend that our breakup is breaking her heart and that blocking me is best for her mental health. A few days later, she left a note on my door requesting to speak. Narcissists often keep tabs on their exes to make sure they’re still able to affect them emotionally, even if My BPD-ex has still blocked me everywhere. 10. Of course she unblocked him when we broke up. She really enjoyed 'knowing' things about people. I didn't respond. You did your best to be a good ex despite your former relationship together. Me not really answering any of the ex bf text messages resulted in a manic breakdown of nasty messages so I just blocked her. This is true regardless of who left who and how or where your ex blocked Topic: ex blocked me on fb (Read 1168 times) Hurtbeyondrepair27. Exatly. 2 weeks Dunno what my ex thinks of me now, What to do if your ex blocked you. Dad to my wolf pack. I dated someone casually for 2 months last fall who said they have BPD. From start to finish the ex pathologically lied to me. Bpd ex/gf left me and blocked me, do I reach out? 💭Seeking Support & Advice Ill keep it short because I feel so numb right now. My ex has me blocked on everything after the last ghosting. My BPD fiance broke up with me and blocked me evrywhere I have BPD and my ex has newly diagnosed BPD. Legit everything. Day. She already found her new interest. We would argue and she would be so cold and hurtful towards me. She messaged me on LinkedIn to verify that, and noted she thought us seeing each other, even in group atmosphere, would lead to trouble. Offline When she blocked me I sent her a final SMS (yes really), reflecting on when she explained why she would block me at instances. She blocked me on every reachable platform of social media. Likewise, my exW wanted me back after I got out of jail but, instead, I filed for divorce. Thank you! My old bestfriend who has BPD as well is blocked on everything, because she’s now best friends with my ex (after saying she hated her and whatnot) and tried calling me numerous times. I had enough of the torment and confusion, and finally erupted and it went from there. I’m devastated :( My ex did the same to me. She told me the story after a 2 hour Convo where I explained how I never felt like she would want me when we were younger. And as days goes she would become colder and colder, and kept telling me she didn't love me. Whatever you're going through, if your relationship is over, I'm telling you, it is 100% for the best. ADMIN MOD Ex blocked me after 3 months . "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at throwawayexpert123. YET you focus on them, you obsess over them, you check on them Why did my ex block me? If your relationship ended and you're trying to figure out why your ex blocked you, the simplest explanation is that your ex doesn't want to talk to you or get any reminders of you. I am sure that I would think of her even less had I found someone I liked to date. I offered, My NC ex with bpd won't block me from his tik tok knowing he can see when I view his profile? Backstory our relationship was very trauma bonded and we had a very bad break up. Before that, after ignoring My ex also has BPD and blocked me 4 months ago on Instagram, whatsapp and Facebook. My messages were delivered however and she usually checked them at her own convenience. Reply reply this is something that been on my mind today, I see people talking crap about their ex who have BPD (they are abusive, manipulative. She now uses her sister’s Instagram to spy on me since I blocked her on that too. Every. Part r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) Topic: Ex literally unblocked and blocked me AGAIN . for me, when i block, it’s because i’m convinced that my person hates me and doesn’t want anything to do with me. After my ex dumped me, she never blocked me on I have BPD and my ex has newly diagnosed BPD. People with BPD (pwBPD) are so emotionally immature that they have a weak and unstable sense of who they really are. Like why are BPD ex blocked me out of the blue . It's also codependency. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder I (21M) am currently being looked into for bpd, adhd and anxiety and I have separated with my ex (21F) who also has bpd (we weren’t together long only ab 6 months) but everything felt so perfect in this relationship and I truly believe she was made for me but we ultimately decided we needed to take a break in what I thought was a clean breakup/break but after about a week she started Over the first weekend of NC/blocking, my ex w/BPD: • Attempted to call me 27 time the initial evening; He would block me before I could block him so that I couldn’t block him and he’d be able to unblock me and do whatever he wanted and reblock me so I My ex BPD blocked me on everything when she had left me back in December - I left my social media accounts on public where she could see everything even with me blocked and she ended up unblocking me after 2 months and 2 weeks of No contact. If they’re the one who left you or if they were the reason why your relationship fell apart in the first place, then they might be "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). She got angry with me and was giving me the cold shoulder. How he cheated on her multiple times that he took their kid to the mistress place. Fast forward 4 days later and I unblock. I sent her a friendly note explaining she would have to unblock me to see anything I posted. So even though he has me blocked, he still does things to upset me. My ex fiance who I suspect has undiagnosed and therefore untreated BPD told me that 16 years prior she had a one night stand with someone she met at a college party because he looked exactly like me. Similarly, my BPD exW likely believed I had "brutalized her" when she called the police and had me thrown into jail for 3 days. Posts: 12179. Her number is blocked and I told her to leave me alone. Topic: My BPD fiance broke up with me and blocked me evrywhere (Read 1254 times) Khawla. so i block them for attention, to test if they care, but it always causes more issues. , future faked, smear campaigned me, and lovebombed. I don't have bpd but I can't understand why she did this without explanations. Now she's away from work for a while and I find she's blocked me out of the blue? My ex (she had bpd) blocked me everywhere . Amazing luck I have, right? Thankfully, both ex’s aren’t with each other in the same class as they hate each other since before they met me. She finally said, we're done, and stop harassing me. Even hugged me. They want to get revenge. He dumped me over text earlier on February and I’ve never seen him since, and we live 15 minutes away from one another and have the same mutual friends. January 2022: Ghosts me after new In this article, I will give you ten honest reasons your ex blocked you even if you didn’t do anything. she could have just blocked me. She broke up with me and got together with someone else almost immediately. My ex went back to her abusive ex whom she claimed blocked during our relationship, there's just no sense in it but with a pwBPD there sometimes doesn't need to be. Single. Re: ex blocked me on fb That is so true, my ex loved to block me for a few days then unblock me. It was a really mind fucked situation. I don’t understand why😂, maybe they want me to contact them idk Reply reply I discovered that mine unblocked me on instagram after having me blocked for months in the relationship. Makes sense. He spit in my face, I slashed his tires, he got back with his ex gf, and we basically just tried to expose each other as much as we could on every social media platform out there. I finally blocked my ex's phone number so she couldn't call or text anymore, So my ex finally gathered all of her things from my house and then blocked me on all social media, then told our mutual friend that she blocked me and that she "understands if he talks to you about me, but I'd prefer if you guys didn't". The illness may have increased your ex's negative emotions, but it's not something you or your ex can put the blame on. 💭Seeking Support & Advice After the breakup I am trying to reconcile with my ex gf, she said that she needs time and space for herself, we talked a lil bit and then she blocked me on everything. She already had someone else. She replied she was dating someone else and i panicked telling her how i would try harder on everything and how i She ghosted and blocked me for 4 weeks, the day after saying she couldn't live without me. Your ex wants to be left alone so that he or she can leave the past behind and self-prioritize. She noticed from the group whatsapp that I intended to join the meetup. My ex did block me - but only after I blocked her. I’ll block them permanently "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). What just happened here? I have a girlfriend I’ve know for 4 years now almost 5 I’ve been in love with her since I was 12 we’ve always had falling outs but we always found our way back to each other I really think she’s the one for me but today we got into an argument about a really dumb joke I said it hurt her and I begged her to forgive me but she kept saying it was over and we’re breaking up and she bpd ex is blocked everywhere & emailed me BPD Behaviors & Traits I hate when he has these moments of clarity and on some level maybe knows hes gone too far on things. Throughout our split, she has been blocking me and unblocking me on social media. She discarded me and blocked from everywhere and 8 hours later she unblocked my number then blocked it again when I called. saw that I am busy and quickly re-blocked me. After a disagreement about five weeks ago, my dBPDbf (clearly now ex!) took it upon himself to ignore me for a few days before abruptly blocking me on his Facebook, Twitter My ex blocked me on Instagram out of nowhere before we officially ended things and denied it. When we were together she called me once with a FB profile of her dog, yes people make those I guess. While with her new supply. etc) It's like alright those are ur feelings and you are VALID to have them and express it, but your ex who have BPD MOVED ON from you, they even blocked you in some situations. I remember when we were still together she'd spend long hours on social media creating links that would eventually allow her access to her perceived enemies. She came and knocked on my door later that night drunk. 1) Shrug it off. Although he has blocked me, he's still doing things like changing his relationship status to public, now that it says single. Intense, unstable emotion, questioning my intentions and accusing me of cheating when there was no evidence to support it, begging me not to leave when I had doubts and playing “woe is me” and other manipulation to try and get me to staythe list goes on. Looks like my Ex-BPD has unblocked me as this guy I warned about her blocked my Facebook account. Block Mine blocked me to exert control, plain and So my ex wanted to give me space. If left untreated, Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can lead to increased risk of suicide, This is more of a rant/expression of annoyance as I don’t plan on responding to them or accepting their Instagram request but my friend’s BPD ex is trying to follow me on Instagram (I have a private account) after removing me as a follower many months to a year ago and sent me a kind message: basically to the extent of “sending you love, I miss you my friend!” My ex went back to her abusive ex whom she claimed blocked during our relationship, there's just no sense in it but with a pwBPD there sometimes doesn't need to be. So I make sure to post pictures living my best life. One of the things that helped me best understand my ex (undiagnosed BPD) was the idea of Feelings over Facts. Offline Gender: But whenever she blocked me, she had FB opened/unblocked as a side channel we've been in a push and pull cycle in 2021 before we even started to meet face-to-face by the end of 2021 Still, although I blocked her everywhere possible, she wants to know things about me. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). SHe would mention him and praise him to me when we argued, but in fact I know she had blocked him on social media. She flat out denied it to my face saying I wasn't blocked. That’s why when your ex blocks you, that doesn’t mean that they always are missing you. i want her to be okay but she was also one of my best friends. I ignored the e-mail. She then told me she would block me and she did. About two weeks ago she blocked me pretty much everywhere. Gostaríamos de exibir a descriçãoaqui, mas o site que você está não nos permite. However I believe that they reached out much earlier than that by posing as one of her much younger relatives and using their phone to contact me. This is Undiagnosed BPD ex gf . A few days after that she posted that she was So my ex finally gathered all of her things from my house and then blocked me on all social media, then told our mutual friend that she blocked me and that she "understands if he Last week she blocked my phone and I feel destroyed and like shit. Question Post Idk what to think about, we broke up in good terms 1 month ago and yesterday morning she blocked me everywhere. the other day we had an argument that started after i asked him for reassurance because i feel insecure after this whole thing when i found him on tinder a few So my ex situationship blocked me last week. We had been going no contact for one and a half months now. I ignored all of these attempts and blocked her after the last one. I have plenty of people to speak to, If the breakup was messy, an ex will block you because they might want to move on and forget you. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Me and my bpd ex broke up about exactly a year ago. Then four months ago, she started to become affective with me again. I have read up on BPD and I understand the boundaries. 💭Seeking We got in an argument today after I left cause I was trying to explain to him I'm struggling a lot with my bpd he told me to sort myself out and my natural reaction was to lash out and call him a prick. After two days it got blocked again. Recently he had changed it to private when we were in a relationship in attempt to get a reaction out of me because he was mad about something. Like as soon as I sent that message,I was blocked. Despite all of this she kept trying to hang on to me and continually talk to me, but it was like the real her died. Members Yes my NPD ex still “covertly” checks on me. She likely is telling you the truth, Andres. When I was on messenger I noticed she unblocked it. On the 6th month he shows up with a girlfriend. I found out during this time she was on a dating app. Or sometimes she would block me everywhere but unblock me a few hours after. Just to be clear, the single phone call and my responses back that I would respect her wishes but was super confused were my only responses back. I thought I was being nice, and trying to make her feel better. My quiet BPD ex hasn't missed a day of hoovering in 30 plus days. 5 years. They had their own reasons for blocking you, and sometimes it might not be Those who have followed my post history for the last 4 months will know that my ex with strong BPD traits broke up with me last November wanting to focus on her mental health, Problem is I discovered yesterday she has blocked me on everything within the last week. I blocked both her personal and work numbers and blocked her on all forms of social media. So you just broke up with your borderline ex-partner (who suffers from borderline personality disorder, that is). I hate You, don't leave me. So I’m 9 weeks out of a relationship with my BPD ex and about 5 weeks NC. We had been on really thin ice already for about two weeks before it. However, I cannot see my ex's friends list anymore, so obviously that is strange. She blocked me a few months ago, out of nowhere, and recently, she also blocked the only mutual friend I still had with her, also for no known reason. Gave recently a reaction on a You Tube post by me, so she is googling me clearly, My diagnosed bi-polar and BPD ex wife and I have been split up for about 1. Yes, if she is a pwBPD, she very likely does miss you. fast forward to today he textes her more than me he is always finding ways to show up to her place and he is always seeking emotional She tells me that talking to people that truly care about her somehow seems difficult for her right now. Since then they have been obsessively cyberstalking me, harassing me and my friends and finding new ways to contact me. Members Online • Thrwawykml . My ex accused me of blocking her on Facebook, because she couldn't see my pictures while I was on vacation with our youngest. Kristina Tripkovic. We used to work together. So I told her today why I wasn't talking to her and right after that,she blocked me. Why didn’t my ex just block me? Once she dumped me. You wake up, October 2021: My ex blocked me on instagram over a nothing fight. that he made her pay alimony. I extend the olive branch and see if she wants to keep the relationship but if not I need to get her shit out of the apartment. Haven't reached out to her for 2 months. We used to fight alot about his ex because I was worried I was a rebound. Took about a month to talk to her again and a month of talking for her to unblock me. One month passes by and i take up contact again asking to try one last time. the same mutual friend said that she’ll talk to me again someday, but i don’t believe that. Topic: My BPD ex tried to make me jealous, I didn't react and then she blocked me. Offline Gender: What is your sexual orientation: Straight Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner much of a BPD or High Conflict relationship is about power and control. My previous partner/fp just blocked me and I have been on a rocky path to self improvement. I was very, very surprised by this attitude; I didn't expect her to do that to him. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline But now even 3 months later and 2. I think she checked up on me. I was unaware of her diagnosis until we reconnected and she told me why she blocked me. Hey Duped_312, thanks for asking. Fewer than 3 Posts Offline It's all part of the process. He’s lashed out at me in the past but that was back in June, he blocked my number after arguing back and forth. 💢Venting Post May get flack for mentioning my ex gf being undiagnosed but the signs are there. 5 minutes into the conversation on the first date she went on and on about the ex. I unfortunately forgot to block her e-mail - which she tried to contact me several days later. My ex blocked me everywhere then unblocked me. I want to know We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. This subreddit is an abuse support forum. We had been friends in the past and he ghosted before, stating it was because he was in love with me and I was getting married and he didn't want to get in the way. I send her about 70 messages, asking for forgiveness and professing my love, and she didn't respond once. It’s not you, it’s them. I think it hilarious and probably wants to check up on me. Like a regular breakup, you’re probably feeling all types of In the meantime, he followed me on insta only to block me a few days later. Now my brain thinks we can get back together because she misses me. Getting ridiculous lol (Read 2049 times) secretgirl. i just lost my best friend, the person i care about most in the world. Ex blocked me today 💢Venting Post Well after 5 and a bit months she took the steps to block me on insta and facebook. i don’t know what to do. Didn’t contact her and 1 month into no contact she blocked me on Instagram/Facebook, and then slowly blocks me on different platforms 2-3 weeks apart (Spotify venmo discord texts) over the next 3 months even thought we haven’t spoken. He tried to catfish me posing as the new person he was dating, and messaging me about how horrible he was. My BPD ex has yet to hoover me. forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Offline Gender: What is your sexual orientation: Gay, lesb Mother with BPD, PTSD, Depression and Anxiety: RIP in 2021. I’ve asked them to stop, blocked them on everything and been ignoring them for months but they keep finding new ways. For the past 5-6 weeks she wanted to try and be "friends" (I did not have an interest in this, I want more but acquiesced), and I honestly believe based on her behaviours that she wants more too. They are still together. She blocked me. Why? (Read 4994 times) SaltyDawg. I assume that they have broken up after checking her social media accounts which she just now unblocked me on. This weekend I saw that she unblocked me on Instagram, but not on the other two. We were together for 6 months and we were very close. My girlfriend had some sort of episode and just became completely delirious and disconnected. I’m 9 months out. gcaexrd zbqazj bemcw vzcw rpjkh hngpzs cvgj jsnu uyldkd oaj